Every once in a while we are faced with our biggest fear - the player. He’s suave, cool and always attractive, due to his confidence. What is most appealing about his ‘species’ is the ability to conquer anything, including you. Wouldn’t it be great though if you could find out what his next move is? Here are four steps you can take to help you stay ahead in the game you’re both playing.

Don’t be afraid to ask him questions. Ask him to tell you about himself! Players know that women like to talk about themselves, so they let them do just that... dodging queries about their own life. Sometimes finding out how many girlfriends he’s had and why they broke up can tell you what kind of guy he is. Players are usually honest about what they want from you... they just need to be asked.

Notice how he is with other women. A player has a way with women even when he’s not flirting. If you sense another woman’s heart flutter just by your guy having a simple conversation with her (and it’s not because he’s good looking), you know he’s got innate moves. A sweet talker can be found out on the first date, so beware.

Players always have a sob story to tell. The one story that made him become the way he is today... a male whore. Try not to fall for it. They always make it seem as if they are the victims and women tend to always feel sorry for them.

Don’t jump into the sack too quickly. Sex always makes it a done deal for the player. He will inevitably dump you once the deed is done. Avoid having sex with him for as long as you can. A player won’t waste his time on you if you’re not going to put out. He might however get the sex elsewhere and then work on you whenever he can until he gets you. So the best way to know he’s still stuck on you is if he’s still making plans to see you every week... even if he’s not getting any.