In the modern world of dating where romance fades just as quickly as it gets heated and exciting, it is almost impossible to tell if your guy is working towards something serious or just keeping it casual. As a result, women often find themselves getting fooled by players and their irresistible charm.
Here are 5 signs your man might just be playing you.
1.He’s super charming
He has the looks that women are easily get attracted to and he knows it. Once he set his sight on you, you can expect to be swept off your feet as he makes you burst out in laughter, showers you with compliments, discusses about family and babies in ways he believes will get you drawn towards him. Flirting and smothering you with affection is his forte.
2.The chemistry is undeniable.
The chemistry is instantaneous the moment you both start talking. You are immediately hooked without him having to make a single move because being emotionally intoxicated by him is part of his game plan. You find yourself constantly pursuing him instead of playing hard to get. The “let’s be exclusive” talk has never been his topic of interest and chances are, you both moved pretty fast too. Sleeping with him on the first night happens naturally and calling you back the next day is not a problem for him.
3.He can’t be reached.
This has to be the biggest tell sign of a player. Typically, he plays the conversation in a way that you have enough to hang on and hope for a change in things that will bring you closer to him. You will probably hear him say things like “when I get a job closer” or “when I’m less busy we can be together more”. Chances are he will drop you before even thinking about making any effort in the “relationship”.
4.No isn’t in his vocabulary.
The answer no does not sit well with him. The more you say no, the more he’s going to try to charm his way into spending a night in bed with you. He might even throw in a brand new purse or a killer pair of heels that he knows you will love just to have a good time with you. The relationship also never seems to leave the bedroom. You never get to meet his friends or family. He is always there to take you out for a meal or indulge in wild rendezvous in some gorgeous hotel rooms, but he is never there when you really need him.
5. It feels too good to be true.
Everything with him feels like on big whirlwind, a pure adrenaline rush. He is the picture perfect guy and things just fall into place within the short period of getting to know each other. Sex with him may be fantastic yet you cannot help but feel the connection is missing.
So if you start noticing the following signs, it’s never too late to drop the player before he drops you. Instead of wasting your time with him, wait out for someone amazing who is willing to put in time and effort to be with you.
Source: Your Tango