In this age of online dating, relationships have gone more digital than ever. As people’s schedules get busier by the minute, the means of satisfying their libido is also changing. Sexting – an amalgamation of sex and text (in case you’ve been living under a rock), a word no one knew 10 years ago – is definitely a thing of today.
No matter what opinion you may have about it, let’s admit it: sexting is pretty normal, and you will probably be in need of it in future, if not already. That’s why, we’re here to give you some tips and know-hows as it can get a little tricky
1.Make sure you know him
This is a general rule of thumb. While meeting the person is preferred, we girls admit that it might not be possible in every case. So it is always advisable to talk to him about various topics of interest before jumping on the sexting bandwagon. This sets up the comfort level with the person, and also tells you what kind of a person he is.
2. Start with verbal foreplay
Sexting is essentially sex without the physical activity. And the mood for it can only be escalated by foreplay. Hence, make sure you do not get straight into it. Indeed, sexting is a subtle art and it is important that it begins with delicate sentences before you begin the heightened physical part. You do not need to be poetic, just a little cautious.
3. Let your imagination run wild (with detail)
Since you’re writing every action down, it is a good idea to do it in detail. Get a little graphic in your approach, as it builds a romantic mood as well as ensures your conversations have the potential to last longer and not become monotonous. For instance, you can describe how you’re sensually unbuttoning each button of his shirt during a long, passionate kiss.
4. Keep the sexting to words
The digital world may be all fun and games until its dark side shows. Many people tend to get carried away and ask for nudes. But in the age of leaks and endless break-ups, you’d probably want to NEVER send your nudes to anyone, even if he is your boyfriend. Situations change quickly, and no one can guarantee yours or his feelings in the future. Even if it stays that way, you never know who else might be looking in his phone. But if you must..
5. Stick to the minimal
When it comes to pictures, make sure your face isn’t visible. Blur out any other important detail that might make you recognizable such as tattoos, etc.
