Lackluster and dull sex in a relationship can be caused by many things and it will eventually take a toll on the relationship. If you feel like your sex life could use a boost of passion then do something about it. We tell you how to spice it up!
Experiment with Toys
Men find a certain pleasure and are easily turned on when they see or watch a woman pleasing herself. Hit your local sex shop; bring in toys and lubes to add excitement in bed.
Live Your Fantasies
Being in a long term relationship shouldn’t get in the way of you enacting your fantasies. Share your fantasies with each other and indulge in them together.
Get Out of Bed
There are many places for sexy time besides the bed. Think bathroom, kitchen, hall or a pool. The thrill of getting caught by doing it outdoors just adds an immediate rush.
If you’re living together and know you can have sex whenever you want, refrain. Save it for special occasions or days when you go out partying together. Plan this right and the wait plus the tease will be a worth it.
Pack Up and Fly Away
If the stress from both your busy schedules and work are being brought home and is taking a toll on the relationship, take time out – not from the relationship, but from work. Pack up and go away for the weekend and spend all weekend rekindling your love.
When out at a party together, fl irt and make eye contact with others while your man is watching. Seeing that you’ve still got your game on with a little harmless fun would remind your man on what drew him to you. However, limit your flirting meaning no touching and no sexual gestures.
If he is always the one dominating the sex, it’s time you switch it up. Be the dominatrix, be in control and lead him instead of having him lead.
Now let’s be frank, you can’t experience the best sex in your lives or even stay loyal to each other unless you both exchange sexual
thoughts and ideas with each other. Tell your man what you like and what you want so he’ll know what to do and vice versa.
Always remember that confidence is sexy. The last thing a man needs from a woman is her lack of confidence. For a boost of confi dence, throw on sexy lingerie and look at yourself in the mirror without judging yourself.
Have Spontaneous and Unpredictable Sex
Avoid scheduling time for sex as it may feel like a responsibility and task which causes lack of passion and interest.
Be a Tease
Indulge in foreplay, a whole lot of foreplay and nothing more. Lay him in bed; take time to discover his body before going near his privates and when you do, take him all the way but only orally.
If you have fallen in love as young teens then take a trip down memory lane. There’s no harm in and behaving like teens in love over the
weekend. Hang out in places you used to, make out in public and just rekindle the love.
It is easy to lose yourself in the comfort of a long term relationship. Treat your man to a delicious home cook dinner and back rub, show him love and appreciation before taking him into bed for a night of love making.
Make a Sex Tape
Make a video together while having sex. The idea of being recorded while in the act is a major turn on for some. Be sure to delete right after watching it though. Wouldn’t want to be in the same situation as Kim K and Ray J now would you?
By: Bryna Kaur