Brownie points shall be awarded for men who take note of this during *drum-roll*
And no it does not necessarily mean we have gotten entirely on board with the whole Fifty Shades of Grey craze and BDSM ( Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM)) but these are just things which we women actually like in bed.
With that being said to each their own. One way to find out what she likes is to explore, she’s not actually going to talk about rough sex but you could always test the waters with small baby steps. Nothing more sexier then a man who wants to take the lead and show his girl that he’s capable of putting her first in bed and making it a pleasurable experience for both.
#1 A little light choking goes a long way.
We are talking about playfully grabbing her neck when you kiss her or even as you pin her down. Make sure your grip isn’t too strong though. Always make sure that her expression tells you if she’s actually enjoying it or it’s causing her discomfort.
Get the picture?
#2 Reverse Piggyback Ride.
In other words just simply lifting her up but of course holding her from the front, we actually liked to be carried. Please don’t make us ask. Bear in mind, that’s if you have the strength to do so. It makes us women feel like a damsel being saved by her prince charming, as you sweep her off her feet in one swift motion. Just picture a steamy sex scene waiting to happen where you two are making out passionately and you surprise her by carrying her and that way she’ll be able to easily lock her legs around you.
P.S. Stand and Deliver perhaps? *inserts winks*
#3 Scratchy Scratch
Tease her, run young fingers all over her back and if she is actually enjoying it you can playfully scratch her, along with some tickles. Think about how you enjoy her clawing you. Now return the favor.
#4 Spank me daddy.
Alright let’s not get into them daddy kinks, leave that alone and just focus on the planting of your palm on her derriere repeatedly. Yes, I am talking about spankings. Oh how we love them smacks. It’s a common kink but most men underestimate how arousing it can be for us.
#5 Sink your teeth in
Sexual biting is a big yes. Like how we playfully bite you we want to be bitten as you pin us down. Have you trail little bites all over our body. By gently biting our neck,back and moving to the thighs and wait hold it go back up. Don’t forget to bite her nipples, graze them with your teeth and feel her nipples get taut. It’s all about teasing.