Are you ready to take your sex life to new heights? How many times you and your partner just couldn’t wait to make it back to either of your bedrooms? Picture this- both of you in a horny frenzy and to make matters worse you’re in public. What happens next? It would make sense to wait till your home but well if you can’t wait, the other alternative is to get it on in somewhere private. An empty parking perhaps?
I’m usually a total bottom person but vertical sex allows you to engage your muscles (especially the pelvic floor) in ways that in-bed sex doesn’t require.
“Being able to have sex standing up not only adds variety to one’s sex life,but also provide options for spontaneity, especially in tight spaces,” said Madeleine Castellanos, MD, functional medicine physician and sex therapist.
“Adding surprise to our sex repertoire also re-stimulates dopamine receptors in the brain,”says sex coach Pattie Britton, MD. “These are one of the many neurotransmitters responsible for lust.”
Sounds very much exciting, bear in mind the giver(the one doing the penetrating) and yes the penetrative positions for the giver can be performed with a penis or a strap-on. Pro of a strap-on would be the ability to rotate the dildo to find the most comfortable position for each partner. Without a doubt, the receiver is the more passive partner, the one being penetrated either vaginally or anally. (It is essential to be more delicate in these positions if you are using them for anal)
With that being said, go forth and try the following positions.
I bet the first standing sex position which came to mind was shower sex. Well you’re not wrong there, it’s a classic after all. There are plenty of variations on how to have shower sex, either way most of them are standing.