And no there is nothing narcissistic about this pose- it can be used to the advantage of both lovers. This is a variation of the Candle pose, here both partners face the same direction and if you’re in the bathroom or a room with a mirror you can watch yourselves. The giver stands behind the receiver and holds one of the receiver’s leg. (Receiver can opt to prop their leg up on a chair or set of stairs). If you’re the giver you have the ability to control the pace and the rhythm by holding onto their body. As the receiver, you’ll have control over the angle of penetration, allowing you to receive as much G-spot/prostate stimulation as you desire.