Here you are sitting and thinking that this guy here is perfect for you, he’s the one…your soulmate, if you must. Well chances are this guy is married, if every time you push forward and he seems to hold back, then it’s time to pay attention to those sign. Here are five telltale signs that you’re only his sidepiece.
Things just aren’t adding up
and by that we mean the following:
If he’s only available to talk or see you at odd hours then that’s already a big red flag in our books. Married men only will have the time to talk to you when his wife is away and obviously go missing in action upon her return.
He’s Weird About Social Media
He claims social media like Facebook,Twitter and the works are a toxic dump, yet you two met on a dating side. Odd much? Its that or he does have social media sites but takes forever to approve your friend request and his profile is rather dead its either he’s a super private person or his probably privatizing stuff from you.
You Only Meet A Few Friends Or None At All.
If he’s cheating and going behind his wife’s back, of course he’s going to be very selective as who he can and can’t introduce you to. Why? Because he knows they know his wife and doesn’t want to let them in on the fact that he’s being a dog. Don’t know who his folks are or his besties? Uh oh!
He’s Very Sketchy About His Phone Usage
Your guy possibly has his phone in his hands 24/7. Let’s get real- he responds only when he wants to respond. Yes, he’s getting your messages, I mean after all messages are previewed on the screen.. he knows. Face it, you’re being ignored hardcore. Or he’s with his significant other, when the message comes in so he has to wait till the coast is clear. Either way you’re being ignored for the time being.
He Never Invites You Over
I mean if you’ve been dating each other for some time now and he’s not asked you to come over then seems to me like something is definitely up. His wife and family are at home and of course you’re forbidden from knowing about his other life.
Not Spending The Holidays Or Special Events With Him
During the holidays or special events, married men are in no position to get away from their wives or families.
He Pays For Everything In Cash
When he pays for everything in cash, can indicate he’s filthy rich and does not like the idea of credit cards and debt or it could also mean he’s trying not to leave a paper trial. He doesn’t want his wife seeing vacations, bar orders and restaurant transactions on receipts or credit card statements.
He Takes You To Secluded Places
If you live in the same area with the guy you’re talking to and he insists on going elsewhere instead of eating or meeting up in the same area. Something smells fishy. Especially when the places he chooses are rather far or somewhat secluded and lonely, something is definitely up.
Your Gut Is Telling You Something’s Not Right
Follow your intuition. If something in your gut is telling you he is not being forthright with you, listen to that voice. There’s a reason his actions aren’t adding up.